I love helping people meet the right person. No joke, I love engagements and weddings! It’s not a secret that I also love coaching people to have thriving relationships. Let me ask you … Have you ever wondered why you can’t seem to find the one? Maybe it’s not a topic that is consuming you but you’ve had the thought …
Read More »Welcome to Single Matters
Single Matters® a ministry for Christian men and women who have a desire to be healthy and whole singles so they can be all that God created and redeemed them to be for single life or in preparation for marriage. Read More »
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The Future Of Single Matters
Hi friends! Jill Monaco here … Publisher of Single Matters magazine. I have an important announcement to share with you. We consider you family, and because of that … I’m inviting you into a family chat. OK? If you’re new to the ministry, let me share some of our amazing history of how we’ve served SINGLES: Single Matters launched in June …
Read More »Merry Christmas From Single Matters!
MAY YOUR DAYS BE MERRY AND BRIGHT! Today we pray you are filled to overflowing with the joy of the Lord. That all who come in contact with you sense the presence of God. May they know that your light comes from the living Savior Jesus Christ. We bless you with every spiritual gift you were destined to carry. As Mary carried …
Read More »25 Things Singles Hear At Christmas
Who doesn’t love a little laughter at Christmas? Founder of Single Matters, Jill Monaco, shares some funny things singles hear at Christmas (or around the year) and puts some commentary on it. Hope you enjoy! Join The Community!Get immediate access to our private Facebook Community and free resources from our founder Jill Monaco. Join, It's Free!
Read More »Unlocking Singleness New Year Plan
A few years ago I woke up on New Years Day with a little grumble in my heart. Truth be told, it was a big grumble. As I went to the Lord to find out why I was crabby before the day even started I realized I wasn’t hopeful for the next year. The year before was a very hard year …
Read More »How To Let Go And Embrace A Transition
Today is a beautiful autumn day. The weather is a little warm for my liking, but the wind is blowing, signaling change — a new season is coming, and that makes my heart giddy. What is it about change and newness that feels so good? The hope, the anticipation, the letting go — I love it all. I love it, …
Read More »Why Singles Need To Learn To Abide In Christ
“God, the Spouse of my soul, God, who makes my soul fruitful for eternal life — Him alone will I love and nothing other than Him.” -St. Augustine The moment she’d waited for all day long was nearly here. She had helped her sister prepare everything so it would be perfect, but nothing was ever quite good enough for her …
Read More »Not Meant To Be: Trusting God For The Redemption Of Singleness
Still single at 40. I never thought those words would apply to me, and I was crushed that they did. For me, prolonged singleness was a loss — loss of love, partnership, motherhood and the joys they were supposed to bring. The year I turned 40, I wrote the final version of Not Meant to Be: Trusting God for the …
Read More »3 Tips To Avoid Toxic Relationships
“Congratulations on your third baby!”, “Best wishes on your upcoming marriage!”, “Fantastic news on your engagement!” and similar statements started becoming more and more common as people I knew celebrated milestones. I’d often wondered when my time was coming and asked God how much longer. Maybe that’s part of the reason I entered and stayed in a toxic relationship. Because …
Read More »7 Tips For Renewed Hope For Love After A Bad Relationship
Have you been in a bad relationship? I, like many women (and some men) I’ve known, have experienced trauma from being abused. Whether it was physical, psychological and/or sexual abuse by someone you trusted — who was supposed to love and care for you — or a total stranger, abuse damages your soul. It has left many of us fearful …
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Relationship Lessons From Eggs And Eggshells
… God is the Judge: He puts down one, And exalts another. –Psalm 75:7 NKJV …
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Ladies, Asking A Question Is Not Leading
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The Difference Between Stolen And Influenced Hearts
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Do You Want To Be Married?
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Ten Tips To Deal With Cuffing Season
The autumn leaves are turning beautiful colors as they float to the ground. The days …
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For My Single Girls Facing The Unknown
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Three Words That Will Change Your Life
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Are You Tempted To Settle?
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Six Ways To Build Your Gratitude Muscle
For those of you who enjoy working out, you have several reasons to do so. …
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When You Need God To Bring A Miracle To The Middle Of Your Mess
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Why Living In The Past Will Consume Your Future
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Does God Really Like You?
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5 Things Singles Can Do To Be Financially Stable
No one cares about your financial life more than you. As a single woman, I …
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Surviving Thanksgiving: Tips For Staying Healthy
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Healthy Habits for Singles, Part 6: Being Active at Your Desk Job
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Healthy Habits for Singles, Part 5: Best Motives For Eating Well