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Afi Pittman

Afi Pittman is an author and radio show host. She is also an active-duty Navy officer who has traveled the world and lived abroad. Her company, Author of Faith Enterprises, helps today’s single Christian woman to “live right, love life and find Mr. Right.”

When You Treat Men Like Pests That Need Bug Spray

I was watching a video by Tyrese Gibson not too long ago where he was talking about the frustration men face when approaching women who automatically decide that they don’t want to be bothered without getting to know the man first. He likened it to women treating men like pests who need to be sprayed with bug spray. I never …

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When You’re In A Relationship Of Convenience

“He married someone else!” she yelped in between sobs. “And I gave him everything. I gave him everything, and he still married someone else!” I didn’t know what to say to this young woman who had confided in me, so I just put my arms around her and let her cry for a few moments. I couldn’t imagine what it …

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When You Are Happy Being Single And Desire Marriage Too

I remember scrolling through my Facebook feed once and seeing a status post that said, “Lord, can I PLEASE get married before the Rapture?” I thought it was funny until I realized how many of us have actually asked God this question. Maybe not in the same exact words, but we have. Not everyone can understand the anxiety that a …

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3 Things I Learned From Disappointment

Ahh … July! Summer is in full swing, and the heat is high. I’m enjoying the beautiful, hot days, though, because the winter snowstorms that hit the northeast made winter seem like it was never going to end. As much as I love winter and snow (I’m a Florida native and always wanted to live in the snow), I was …

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5 Things You Need To Know Before Dating

In the spirit of honoring fathers for Father’s Day, this article is dedicated to single women who didn’t have good relationships with their fathers. More specifically, those who desire marriage but make their current relationship decisions based on the relationship they had with their father. I remember watching an interview Tyler Perry did before Oprah retired the Oprah Winfrey Show. …

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How Singles Can Embrace Mother’s Day

One day several years ago, I visited a new mother in the hospital. She had just had her baby. When I saw him, something in me was different. I normally am afraid to hold new babies because they’re so small and seem like they break so easily. The new mother’s mom was there with her and holding the baby. As …

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Are You The Reason You Are Single?

 “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!” 2 Corinthians 5:17, NLT Everything is not always as it seems. And most of us do not see ourselves the way others do. Here lately, God has me camped out in the idea of singleness due to …

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Why You Should Find A Mentor

“If you’re not cheating, you’re not trying” is something someone told me shortly after I joined the military. They weren’t saying that I should actually cheat. They saw me spinning my wheels with little to show for it and tried to teach me a lesson in productivity. They were saying, if you’re not talking to people who have successfully done …

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How To Be Single On Valentines Day

If you’re single and reading this, I have a question for you: How do you feel about this coming Valentine’s Day? How do you be single on Valentines Day? I ask because I’ve often found that many of us fall into one of two categories. Either we adopt the spirit that this will “not be another Valentine’s Day” that we …

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