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Debra Fileta

Debra K. Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She, her husband and two children live in Hershey, Pennsylvania. She is the author of the new book "True Love Dates" (Zondervan, 2013), challenging young men and women to approach dating in a way that is psychologically sound, emotionally healthy and spiritually grounded.

The Art Of Being Alone

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There was a time in my life when I felt utterly alone. It was my first year of graduate school, and I was living off-campus in my own apartment. I was no longer surrounded by the hustle and bustle of college life. Though I had three roommates, we were each wrapped up in doing our own things, and our lives …

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5 Reasons He Hasn’t Asked You Out

5 reasons why he hasn't asked you out

If you’re anything like many of the single women I’ve come into contact with, you have pretty much given up on the idea of being recklessly pursued by a man. Forget the fairy-tale dream of being chased after in an attempt to win your heart.  Forget the love letters, the roses, the poems and songs.  Forget it all. At this …

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How Do I Get Over My Discontent With Singleness?

How Do I Get Over Discontent

Since the launch of at the end of March, I’ve had the honor and privilege of hearing from hundreds of men and women across our country and world, with messages of gratitude, relationship questions and stories of hope and healing. While I personally read every single email and do my best to respond to each one, there are times that the …

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How Important Is Virginity?

How Important is Virginity?

I recently got an email from a concerned virgin: a young man who is troubled by the sexual sins of his partner’s past. His voice is just one in the choir of hundreds of young men and women whom I meet with and counsel, people whose hearts are bogged down with disappointment at the unreciprocated sexual purity they face in …

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