This is a great question and one that many couples find themselves asking when they are dating. First, let me say it is natural to feel the way you are feeling. God made attraction so we’d get married! But it is also important to understand the magnitude and strength of those urges. The root of many things that are detrimental …
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Is He Just Being Nice Or Is He Interested?
Well first let me say, “How exciting!” I always love the adventure that the prospect of a new relationship can bring, regardless whether it works out or not. Men are typically quite intentional and purposeful in what they do. If I had to make an assumption, I would say he is trying to “safely” express his interest. I am a …
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How can we, as the body of Christ, become sexually healthy? I know that’s a big question (and perhaps one that hasn’t been given enough thought or attention), so let me personalize it: how can you become sexually healthy? God declared that everything He created was good, and the goodness of His creation includes you as a sexual creature. You …
Read More »Lilies, Thorns and Foxes
I sat on the overstuffed chair in my friend Kay’s guesthouse. There to study, pray and write for the day, I noticed for the fourth time that the clock sitting atop of the armoire ticked, but the time never changed. The second hand exerted effort to move the hour and the minute hand around the face of the clock, but …
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