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Cultivating Selflessness In Singleness

Life as a single is, well, busy. It seems to be a never-ending flow of work, study, friends, trying to stay active in some form or fashion, church, God’s good gift of sleep and the occasional blessing of a nap. In all honesty, I love this part of it. Being able to get up and go whenever I want or …

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Central Park Love Story

Central Park Love Story

A few days ago, everything worked out perfectly enough for me to get lost in Central Park for three hours. The weather simply couldn’t have been more dreamy, and the sky was a drinkable shade of blue, with marshmallow clouds just waiting to turn into whatever my imagination could drum up. I had responsibly taken my computer into the city …

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Is God Destroying Your Dating Life?

Is God Destroying Your Dating Life

I had just pulled my car over to the side of the road during a rainstorm as I choked back the tears. In the midst of a summer camping trip, I had been dumped, and I was in the middle of nowhere suffering from unbelievable levels of rejection. I wanted to dissolve into the pavement on the road and wished …

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How To Date Part 2: Lies Vs. Truth

How to date - part one

How To Date Part 2 : Lies Vs Truth In Part 1 of this series, we talked about the mindset that many people in the church are walking around with that says dating is unhealthy for you. In Part 2 of this series, we want to expose the common lies that come out of this mindset and give you truth …

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Where To Find Love

Where To Find Love

I’m on the staff of a wonderful church. They often pour into us as leaders and help us grow. A few weeks ago I was sitting in a training class listening to one of our pastors talk about the definition of freedom. We were being trained on how to help people become free. I had some “aha” moments. The first …

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Perks of Being Han Solo

Perks of being Han Solo

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, then you’ve probably heard that “Star Wars” has exchanged hands, and a new generation will experience the awesomeness of the ultimate portrayal of the battle between good and evil.  Yes, I’m geeking out! But you’re probably wondering what in the world, or for that matter the universe, does “Star Wars” have to do …

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Are You Losing All Hope For Marriage?

Are you losing all hope for marriage?

Nearly every milestone in my life happened later than expected. As a little girl, I watched others blossom and mature faster than I did. I felt alienated and left out when most of the girls in junior high were stuffing training bras while I was still playing with baby dolls. I was often the target of ridicule because I was …

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Tired Of Being Alone?

Are you tired of being alone?

Did you ever just have one of those days? If you’re single like me, then you know nothing makes you tired of being alone faster than when the deck seems stacked against you. Just a few weeks ago, I had a tough week at work, was up for an award that I didn’t get, facing dental surgery, had my car …

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Single, Happy And Loving Life

Single, Happy and Loving Life

I am a single woman, doing life in New York City and the world, and I am ridiculously happy pretty much all of the time. There is nothing spectacular in the natural to warrant the permanent and somewhat goofy smile that is plastered on my face. I live in the same crazy, chaotic, dog-eat-dog, unstable, pleasure-hungry world you do. What …

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5 Dating Tips For Bachelor Viewers

Dating Tips for Bachelor Viewers

Reality TV is one of my guilty pleasures, so you can count on me to catch several episodes of “The Bachelor.” I watch reality shows like this one because I’m fascinated by human behavior. I try to figure out what compels female contestants to publicly argue, compete and embarrass themselves over a man. I thought I’d pause from my entertainment, …

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