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Release It Into God’s Hands

“If you love something, let it go. If it returns, it’s yours; if it doesn’t, it never was.”

I memorized that quote from a poster that hung on my bedroom wall throughout high school. It displayed a hand from which a dove was being released to fly away. It reminded me of the temporary nature of most teenage romantic relationships.

The truth in that poster resonates throughout my life because it applies to things as well as people. Holding on too tightly can smother relationships. Gripping a job in fear and worry restricts creativity. To help us understand more clearly: If a butterfly lands in your hand, you will crush it if you quickly close your hand to trap it. Instead of clutching, keep your hand open and appreciate the beauty of the moment.

Jesus said His truth brings freedom. Not freedom to live recklessly with no consequences, but freedom to trust His sovereign control. It represents the willingness to hold His blessings loosely and allow Him to bring — or remove — things and people into our lives as He chooses.

Releasing something or someone into God’s hand is not a cold, uncaring act of indifference. Rather, it is deliberate surrender while trusting God to move according to His omniscient control as He fulfills His purpose.

It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. –Galatians 5:1

This intentional release can be difficult and painful. The difficulty arises from our stubbornness and mistrust of God’s loving direction. The pain reveals our feelings of loss, separation, anxiety and uncertainty about whether God will remove, return or replace what we have given Him.

God illustrated several examples of surrendered release with different outcomes:

  • Abraham released Isaac to God — God returned him to Abraham.
  • Moses’ mother released him to the Nile River — God returned him for a few years, but ultimately took him for His service.
  • Hannah released Samuel to Eli for priestly service — God removed him from his home and family.
  • Elisha released Elijah into God’s care — not realizing he was his prophetic mentor’s replacement.
  • Jesus relinquished His will to that of His Father — through the pain and shame of the cross, He ultimately replaced it with a crown.

If you are facing this struggle, prayerfully and faithfully entrust what you release into God’s capable hands. Then resist the temptation to reclaim it. Retrieving something released reveals a lack of trust.

Releasing may be easier through understanding several life themes. Not everyone who enters your life is intended to stay — learn to distinguish the difference. Not everything you hold on to is beneficial — relinquish what God is removing. God refines by returning, removing or replacing — trust His omniscience and sovereign control.

Loving Heavenly Father, I confess I am holding tightly to several things and people in my life. The things are important; the people are dear to my heart. But I admit I may be holding on too tightly or I may be holding to what’s not in my best interest. As an act of full reliance in Your sovereign control, and with the knowledge that You want to do something great in my life, I am loosening my grip and releasing them all to You. I trust You and Your refining transformation. Remove, return or replace as You see fit so I may become the best version of myself, best suited to fulfill the purpose You have for me. In the mighty, unmatched, precious and powerful name of Jesus, Amen!

About Nate Stevens

A missionary kid raised in a Christian home and church, Nate Stevens is a lifelong student of Scripture. He has enjoyed a 36-year banking career in a variety of leadership roles. He is the author of "Matched 4 Life," "Matched 4 Life Workbook," "Deck Time with Jesus," and contributes to the Moments book series (Divine Moments, Spoken Moments, Stupid Moments, etc.). He co-leads a singles ministry in the Charlotte, NC area and is a popular speaker / teacher at conferences, seminars and Bible study groups, speaking on a wide variety of topics. Nate currently lives near Charlotte, North Carolina, is a newlywed to his beautiful wife, Karen, and is an active dad with two awesome kids, Melissa and Mitchell.
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