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Are We Becoming Comfortable With Compromise?

In Matthew 12:35-47, Jesus encouraged living in a state of watchfulness for His return. It will be good for those servants whose master finds them watching when he comes. A wise follower of Jesus will live his or her life in such a manner that at no time will the Lord’s return catch them in an embarrassing, compromising or even non-optimal situation. As His return draws ever nearer, our challenge is to keep our garments clean and to be ready when He comes for His spotless bride.

Yet too often Christians defend their worldly longings in an attempt to justify their carnal passions and the unsurrendered areas of their lives. On and on we go, defending our personal desires and passions that inexplicably mirror the world’s trends and habits. Then when someone challenges us, we compare what we do to the worst situations.

“At least I don’t get drunk when I drink.”
“I could be smoking crack.”
“I just socially dance — it’s not like I’m pole-dancing.”
“Okay, I may be a little bitter, but she deserves it.”
“I’m not gossiping, I’m simply sharing prayer requests.”
“My wife should know better than to challenge my authority.”
“Hey, I may look at my friend’s hot wife in her bikini, but at least I’m not cheating with her.”
“Okay, the movie may be bad, but at least I’m not watching porn.”

Don’t Make Excuses

We downplay our personal desires and excuse our faults with: “It could be a lot worse.” Instead of asking, What’s wrong with it? why not ask, What’s right with it? When did the worst scenario become the standard to which we compare our lives? When did the precipice of sin become our cozy home? What is it that makes us want to push the envelope of morality or live on the edge of an immoral cliff instead of staying as far from it as possible? What happened to living so close to God that we avoid even the appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22)? We forget that sin’s deception can ensnare us more quickly than we realize. We can be under its power and control without even knowing we have been captured.

Don’t Fit In 

The call to sinfulness is much easier than the walk of holiness. And yet, as a part of God’s family, we are to display the family resemblance. We should look and act like our Father. He calls us to Be holy because I am holy (1 Peter 1:16). He warns us, Come out from them and be separate (2 Corinthians 6:17). Instead of blending into the world, we are to let your light shine before others (Matthew 5:16). Rather than being part of the crowd, we are to stand out from the crowd. Instead of fitting in, we should grow to where we are completely out of place in worldly settings.

Don’t Have a Blemish

As further encouragement, we are reminded in Ephesians 5:25-27 that Christ wants to have a glorious church not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Not even a blemish! That means hating a garment spotted by the flesh (Jude 1:23). The implied word picture is of a pure white robe that has no stains on it. No coffee spills, no ketchup smudges, no greasy French-fry hand smears, no specks of lint, no wrinkles — no impurities whatsoever. Our lives should reflect such a pure, unblemished, holy garment so we sparkle in a dark and dying world. That is how we let our light shine.

So, the next time you find yourself headed to one of the world’s venues or engaging in a habitual behavior, check yourself. Question why you are doing what you’re doing. Then compare your explanations to the pure, white, unspotted garment God desires His followers to wear. How does it measure up? How would you feel if Christ returned while you were in the middle of your desired activity?

Being spotless doesn’t mean being perfect. But our heart’s disposition should be one that doesn’t make excuses for engaging in activities that would leave a spot.

About Nate Stevens

A missionary kid raised in a Christian home and church, Nate Stevens is a lifelong student of Scripture. He has enjoyed a 36-year banking career in a variety of leadership roles. He is the author of "Matched 4 Life," "Matched 4 Life Workbook," "Deck Time with Jesus," and contributes to the Moments book series (Divine Moments, Spoken Moments, Stupid Moments, etc.). He co-leads a singles ministry in the Charlotte, NC area and is a popular speaker / teacher at conferences, seminars and Bible study groups, speaking on a wide variety of topics. Nate currently lives near Charlotte, North Carolina, is a newlywed to his beautiful wife, Karen, and is an active dad with two awesome kids, Melissa and Mitchell.
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